This tells the story of a circle that was missing a piece...
A large triangular wedge had been cut out of it. The circle wanted to be whole
with nothing missing, so it went around looking for its missing piece. But
because it was incomplete and therefore could roll only very slowly, it admired
the flowers along the way. It chatted with the worms. It enjoyed the
sunshine. It found lots of different pieces, but none of them fit. So it
left them all by the side of the road and kept on searching.
Then one day the circle found a piece that fit perfectly. He was so happy.
Now it could be whole, with nothing missing. It incorporated the missing piece
into itself and began to roll. Now that it was a perfect circle, it could
roll very fast, too fast to notice the flowers or talk to the worms. When
it realized how different the world seemed when it rolled so quickly, it
stopped, left its found piece by the side of the road and rolled slowly away.
The lesson of the story is that in some strange sense, WE ARE MORE WHOLE
WHEN WE ARE
THE MAN WHO HAS EVERYTHING IS IN SOME WAYS A POOR MAN. He will never
know what it feels to yearn, to hope, to nourish his soul with the dream
of something better. He will never know the experience of having someone
who loves him, give him something he has always wanted and never had.
THERE IS A WHOLENESS ABOUT THE PERSON WHO HAS COME TO TERMS WITH HIS LIMITATIONS,
who has been brave enough to let go of his unrealistic dreams and not feel
like a failure for doing so. There is a wholeness about the man or woman
who has learned that he or
she is strong enough
to go through a tragedy and survive, who can lose someone or something
and still feel like a complete person.
When we accept that imperfection is part of being human, and when we can
rolling through life
and appreciating it, we will have achieved a wholeness that others can only
aspire to. That, I believe, is what God asks of us --- not "Be perfect"
--- not "Don't ever make a mistake," but "Be whole." And at the
end, if we are brave enough to love, strong enough to forgive, generous enough
to rejoice in another's happiness, wise enough to know there is enough
love to go around for all of us, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no
other living creature will ever know...